It's In Your Hands
“I don't know whether the bird you are holding is dead or alive, but what I do know is that it is in your hands. It is in your hands.”
Resilience and Queer joy often begin with the realization that our lives are, in many ways, in our hands. Whether the bird we hold - our situation, our emotions, or our future - is thriving or struggling, we are the ones responsible for shaping what happens next. This truth can feel both empowering and challenging, as we navigate a world that doesn’t always make space for us. Taking control doesn’t mean we have all the answers, but it does mean choosing how we respond. Resilience comes when we embrace this responsibility, knowing that even in tough times, we have the power to change our perspective, take action, and move forward.