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It Often Takes Immense Work

We delight in the beauty of the butterfly but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty. In Queer life our own transformations unfold through trials, each setback serving as a cocoon that prepares us for flight. When we weather rejection, self-doubt, or loss and still

We Each Have The Right

Every person deserves the freedom to pursue what truly makes them content. In Queer life, following our own path to joy - whether that means a quiet morning ritual, a vibrant community celebration, or simply honoring our unique passions - becomes an act of authenticity and self-respect. Claiming that right

I've Been There Too

Memories engraved in our hearts become teaching tools and pathways for genuine connection. By sharing moments of struggle and resilience, we reach out a hand and show that no one travels this road alone. Saying I’ve been there too creates a spark of recognition that warms the spirit and

You Won't Be The Same

Failing after an attempt teaches us far more than succeeding without effort. Embracing the possibility of defeat means we dare to experiment with new forms of expression and to test the boundaries of our own identities. Each misstep reveals a lesson, a nuance of our voice, and offers a chance

Why We Need Laughter

Laughter springs from suffering and becomes its own testament to resilience. In Queer life, the depth of our struggles - personal, social, and systemic - gives rise to humor that heals. When we laugh together, we transform pain into shared joy and reaffirm our capacity to endure. The emergence of

Happiness Vs. Joy

Joy arrives unbidden and unannounced, unlike the happiness we strive to earn. In Queer life, joy often finds us in moments we least expect - a friend’s embrace after a hard day, the first notes of a favorite anthem, or the glow of a pride flag against the night

There Are Many Ways To Fall In Love

Falling in love often - with a sunset, a stray cat, a sudden insight, or a new friend - teaches us that connection can spark delightful surprises everywhere we look. That open-hearted wonder trains us to notice and value the small miracles in daily life. When we embrace the joy

Know Your Worth

True creativity means listening to guidance but ultimately trusting your own vision and knowing that your work matters. In Queer life, tuning into advice can help us learn, but the most powerful art emerges when we set aside external doubts and follow our own instincts. That conviction that our ideas

Keep The Best Focus

Resilience in Queer life means shifting our gaze from the hardships we’ve endured to the beauty that still surrounds us. When we acknowledge the pain of rejection or loss but choose to celebrate the colors of our community, we refill our hearts with hope. By focusing on the warmth

A Great Joy

One of the greatest joys in Queer life is daring to step into the unknown in search of understanding. When we venture beyond our comfort zones - whether that means asking hard questions about identity, exploring a new community space, or listening to stories unlike our own - we open

Helping Others Connect

Connecting with ourselves first opens the door for genuine bonds with others. In Queer life, when we honor our own truths and share them openly, we give permission for those around us to do the same. That authenticity becomes the spark that lights real dialogue, trust, and belonging. Each time

Getting In Sync

Experiencing art is a conversation that invites us into the artist’s mind and celebrates each choice they made. Syncing with that decision-making process reminds us that our own choices - how we shape our identities, tell our stories, or craft our work - can be acts of joy. When

Rise Every Time

Resilience shows itself not by avoiding falls but by rising after each one. In Queer life, every time we stand again we reclaim our power and celebrate our capacity to endure. Each stumble becomes a lesson, and each recovery becomes a triumph. When we face adversity and still choose to

The Best Joy

Joy often hides in our smallest triumphs and, especially in Queer life, celebrating those little victories brings a deeper delight than fleeting pleasures ever could. Every time we affirm our identity, navigate a difficult conversation, or complete a creative project, we spark a moment of pride that ripples through our

Communication Vs. Connection

Connection goes beyond trading facts - it’s about sharing our humanity. In Queer life, when we open up about our fears, hopes, and dreams, we forge bonds that transcend mere conversation. Each honest exchange reminds us that we are seen and valued for our whole selves. These moments of

The Ultimate Thrill

There is no rush like the one that floods our hearts when an idea we’ve nurtured finally takes shape and succeeds. That moment of triumph, when our vision unfolds exactly as we imagined, fills us with such exhilaration that everything else fades away. The delight of watching our brainchild

We Would Never Learn

Bravery and patience often grow from hardship. In Queer life, each challenge - from facing prejudice to enduring personal setbacks - becomes a lesson in strength and endurance. When we press on through adversity, we cultivate a joy that is all the more meaningful because it is hard won. Every

Awaken Joy Just Because

Listening for silence in the midst of chaos teaches us that Queer joy is not dependent on perfect conditions. Whether we’re dancing in a crowded Pride parade or raising our voices at a protest, there is always a quiet moment to catch our breath and reconnect to our deepest

We're Not Alone

Connecting with others is one of the best ways to become and remain a Joyful Queer. Reaching out - whether through late-night video chats, shared art projects, or a simple check-in message - becomes an act of solidarity that lifts us all. Each time we open our hearts to someone

It's Extraordinary

There’s something extraordinary about taking that first brushstroke on a blank canvas. With a single mark, we propel our creative project forward and feel a rush of joy that’s almost electric. The feeling we get from moving even one little step forward in our creative pursuits can be

The Best Feeling

When we face prejudice, erasure, or personal struggles, each victory shines brighter due to the magnitude of the challenge we overcame. That hard-earned triumph fills our Queer community with profound pride and reminds us that every barrier surmounted carries its own celebration. Whether it’s claiming our identity, raising our

Joy Emerges From Doubt

Joy often emerges from the very well of uncertainty. In Queer life, doubt can feel like an undercurrent, whispering that we might not belong or that our stories won’t matter. Yet it is precisely from that trembling ground that our brightest joy often bubbles up. When we acknowledge our

Exceptional People Do This

Connection begins with the willingness to understand perspectives that clash with our own. It's not easy! Even when someone may be completely wrong about who we are, taking the time to see the belief behind their words opens the door to a way forward. In Queer community, choosing

Is It Art?

When we create art, a rush of joy and pride fills us, lighting our hearts with excitement and validation. Our internal dialogue bolsters our identity as a Joyful Queer. We glow. Yet too often, an inner “devil” or outer critic asks if it’s really art, implying that it may

Our Antagonist Is Our Helper

Struggle teaches us more than easy victories ever could. When someone opposes us, they force us to deepen our resolve and sharpen our abilities. In Queer life, adversity - whether societal prejudice or personal doubt - becomes a teacher that transforms pain into power. Each challenge met alongside allies and

Interpreting The Everyday

Our sense of self and the joy we glean from life hinge on how we choose to interpret the everyday. Reframing small moments becomes a powerful filter that colors our days. When we train our minds to notice affirmation instead of exclusion and to savor kindness amid chaos, we discover

Emotions Are Everything

Human emotions are the threads that weave us into community and shape our collective future. Our feelings - empathy, love, solidarity - become the foundation of connection that sustains movements and feeds our joy. When we share our hopes and fears, we contribute to a shared destiny built on understanding

You Can't Go Wrong

Perseverance in our creative dreams turns the act of trying into its own celebration. Choosing to keep pursuing the art, the writing, or the expression that moves our hearts means trusting love and inspiration as our compass. When we follow that guiding light, every step - even the ones that

Figure It Out

Resilience demands that we meet obstacles head on and refuse to turn back. When a wall appears in our path we learn to look for footholds, build ladders, or call on others to help us climb. In Queer life these walls can be prejudice, self-doubt, or systems built to exclude

It's In Common Things

True happiness thrives in the simple moments we often overlook. Savoring a shared cup of coffee or the comfort of a friend’s hug are easily accessible sources of joy. By learning to find delight in these everyday experiences, we transform the ordinary into sparks of celebration. That practice trains

Joyful, Active Peace

Peace arises when open minds meet and move together in understanding. In Queer community, approaching each conversation with curiosity and respect turns exchange into a shared dance of ideas and empathy. When we engage others with genuine openness, we create a space where thoughts flow freely and connections deepen. That

Joyful Highs

Our eyes are the gateway to creative joy. In Queer life, noticing a fluttering flag, the play of light on a community mural, or the vibrant hues of a chosen family’s artwork can spark a rush of inspiration. Seeing these moments reminds us that creativity begins with attention. When

Just To Be Alive

Resilience teaches us that even in the deepest sorrow there is a reason to celebrate simply being alive. In Queer life, surviving hardship - whether it’s rejection, erasure, or personal loss - reveals the extraordinary gift of existence itself. Each breath we draw, each morning we rise, becomes an

Laugh

Laughter is a celebration without a timetable. Seizing every chance to laugh becomes an act of joy and defiance. It's how each of us can become a Joyful Queer. Whether it’s a shared joke with chosen family or an impromptu giggle in a tense moment, laughter breaks

The Greatest Sweetener

Friendship is the sweetest gift life offers and it shines especially bright in Queer community. When we gather with chosen family, our joys multiply and our burdens feel lighter. Those bonds of trust and laughter become the foundation of our celebrations, transforming ordinary moments into memories that sustain us. Friendship

Live Creatively

Living life creatively is an act of bravery that lights a path no one else has walked before. Daring to explore uncharted realms of expression - whether through art, fashion, or storytelling - becomes a declaration of joy and freedom. Stepping into that unknown creative place means trusting our unique

It Doesn't Exist Anywhere Else

Fear exists only in the mind. Resilience begins when we challenge those thoughts and refuse to let imagined threats dictate our lives. In Queer life, fear can feel especially powerful - from hiding our identities to facing prejudice - but recognizing it as a mental barrier gives us the power

Thoughts Shape Us

Our thoughts shape who we become and when we tend our inner landscape with kindness and clarity, joy follows us like a constant companion. In Queer life, cultivating a mindset of self-acceptance and compassion means choosing affirming thoughts over doubt and criticism. That practice clears space for joy to take

Be Worth Connecting With

Being genuine is the surest way to spark connection and joy. Showing up as your authentic self, flaws and all, invites others into a space of trust. You don’t need a perfect roadmap - you can learn and adjust as you go. Each act of vulnerability becomes a testament

Get Started

Getting ahead in creativity begins the moment we actually start. Starting that poem, painting, or DIY project immediately delivers joy. The decision to move from idea to action lights a spark of pride and momentum that carries us forward. By letting go of perfectionism and embracing the first step, we

Feel It, Then Work

Anger can be a powerful fuel for change when we channel it into action and creation. Feeling outraged by injustice or erasure can spark us to build, to advocate, and to create the spaces we need. When we move from anger into work - organizing events, crafting art, or supporting

Cheap Medicine

Laughter is the most affordable remedy for the wounds our hearts carry. In Queer life, finding moments to laugh, even when the world feels heavy, becomes a vital act of self-care and solidarity. Sharing a joke with chosen family or bursting into giggles in the middle of a tense day

Share Your Light

Sharing what we know kindles connections that glow with Queer joy. When we offer our hard-earned insights about navigating identity, finding community resources, or crafting our stories, we light candles in others’ hands and illuminate paths forward. Each act of mentorship or guidance builds trust and belonging, reminding us that

Joyful Focus

Creative practice asks for daily commitment and celebrates every moment of effort. Queer artists know that the worth of creation lies not only in final triumphs but in each brushstroke, step, or line penned. Just as dancers focus intently on each movement without complaint, we embrace the labor of making

It's Simple

Resilience often comes from simple persistence. When life feels overwhelming, putting one foot in front of the other reminds us that each step is its own victory. In Queer life, that quiet determination carries us through prejudice, doubt, and pain. Each small action to affirm our identity or to support

It Can Be Anything

True joy often lives in the simplest activities - whether we’re picking grapes, folding laundry, or sharing a quiet moment with chosen family. These everyday acts become celebrations when we approach them with intention and self-love. Taking pleasure in the ordinary reminds us that delight isn’t reserved for

Always Have A Friend

Helping friends is the seed of enduring connection. In Queer community, stepping up to support someone in need weaves bonds that become lifelines. When we offer a listening ear, share resources, or simply show up with a warm presence, we ease another’s burden and plant roots of belonging that

Speak Anyway

Creative courage begins with the decision to speak even when our voice trembles in the face of silence. In Queer life, choosing to express ourselves anyway affirms our presence and sparks joy that resonates beyond the self. When we share our poems, art, or truth we declare that our experiences

You Need Both

Tears are the prism through which our souls reveal their rainbows, showing that resilience and joy are inseparable. In Queer life, every hardship - from personal heartache to collective struggles - waters the seeds of our brightest triumphs. When we allow ourselves to mourn and to feel deeply, we open

The Triumph Of Creation

Feeling like a creator is the purest form of joy because it means you’re shaping your world with your own hands. In Queer life, every act of creation becomes a triumph of existence. When we bring new ideas, art, or connections into being, we declare that our lives matter

Human Connection

Human connection knows no age limit and brings joy at every stage of life. In the Queer community, reaching across generations and welcoming new friends keeps our spirit young and our bonds strong. Whether it’s offering guidance to young voices discovering themselves or learning wisdom from elders who have

They Are Both Important

In creativity, the spaces between our notes are just as vital as the melodies themselves. In Queer art and life, the negative moments - our doubts, our constraints, our struggles - outline the shape of our brightest innovations. When we honor what feels missing or wrong, we learn to fill

A Problem Is A Chance

Problems invite us to rise to our fullest potential and to celebrate each victory along the way. In Queer life, facing an obstacle becomes a chance to show our strength, our creativity, and our capacity for joy. When we tackle challenges - whether personal doubts, societal barriers, or moments of

Power Of The Soul

Joy blooms from within and becomes a force that no external storm can extinguish. Our capacity for joy springs from the deep well of self-acceptance and inner strength we cultivate. When we honor our true selves - our stories, our identities, our voices - we tap into that inward power

Connecting At The Deepest Level

Honest connection at the deepest level reminds us that a single moment of true understanding can transform everything. In Queer life, forging that soul-to-soul bond through shared vulnerability and authenticity becomes a beacon of joy no matter what follows. Even if our world unravels, knowing we’ve been fully seen

The Key Moment

Insight often arrives in that liminal space between effort and ease - when we step back from the desk or close the laptop, our minds finally untether and fresh ideas surface. It's why we often get our best ideas in the shower! Honoring that transition often results in

How We Develop Courage

Resilience isn’t born from easy days but from weathering life’s fiercest storms. When we survive rejection, erase self-doubt, and stand tall against injustice, we cultivate a courage that transforms every victory into celebration. That hard-won bravery deepens our delight, turning even small moments of connection and triumph into

A Different Finish Line

Choosing joy transforms every goal into an ongoing celebration rather than a distant destination. When we make joy our compass, the finish line dissolves and each step becomes worthy of its own delight. In Queer life, where milestones can feel fraught with external pressures, embracing joy means honoring the everyday

Change The Setting

Connection sparkles when we meet someone in a new setting and discover sides of them we never knew - those unexpected moments remind us that Queer joy thrives in the spaces we share. Whether it’s a late‐night rooftop conversation, a dance floor pulsing with drag anthems, or a

The Time Will Pass Anyway

Time moves whether we act or wait - so why not invest it in the dreams that set our Queer hearts aflame? Every moment spent doubting is a moment lost to possibility, but every step toward our vision, no matter how small, fills that time with purpose and joy. Nurturing

Strength Over Adversity

Resilience is the unique strength born from overcoming obstacles - the only power that can defeat adversity. For Joyful Queers, each barrier we dismantle and every stereotype we shatter becomes a spark of celebration. In claiming our right to exist and thrive, we transform past hurts into communal pride, reveling

The Paradox

Profound joy isn’t just about bright moments - it carries the weight of everything we’ve overcome and the depth of connection we’ve forged. In Queer life, our most meaningful celebrations arise from solidarity in struggle, from moments when we stand together against erasure and sing our truths

Be A Rainbow

Connection is becoming a rainbow in someone’s cloud - showing up with color and warmth when life feels gray and heavy. In Queer community, uplifting each other with small acts of kindness or bright encouragement can transform a moment of isolation into one of belonging. Whether it’s a

They Are A Package Deal

Creativity thrives in the bravery to explore uncharted territory - when we dare to try something new, mistakes become the signs of growth rather than failures. For Joyful Queers, experimenting with identity, art, or expression is an act of liberation, and each misstep reveals fresh paths to authenticity. By welcoming

The Strongest Souls

Out of our scars and stories of survival, our Queer community forges its deepest joy - each wound a testament to the strength that emerges when we refuse to be broken. Our most powerful characters aren’t those who’ve always glided through life unscathed but those who’ve walked

Where To Live

Love and laughter are the twin sparks that ignite Queer joy - when we surround ourselves with people who cherish us and moments that make us laugh until our sides ache, we create a space where delight can’t help but bloom. Love gives us roots - chosen family who

They Still Love You

The miracle of close friendship lies in that rare gift of being fully known - our messy shadows alongside our brightest light - and still being loved without condition. When someone witnesses our fears, our scars, and our deepest truths and chooses to stay, they stitch a safety net of

You Can't Explain It

When Queer voices give form to feelings others can’t name, we spark collective joy. This alchemy transforms vulnerability into solidarity, lighting a beacon in hearts that felt unseen. Each poem recited, each line delivered with conviction, becomes a bridge from personal truth to communal celebration. In that space where

The Ultimate Measure

Resilience isn’t tested in comfort but in how we rise when the world pushes back. In Queer life, standing tall amid challenge and controversy - whether at a rally demanding rights or in everyday affirmations of our identities - becomes a source of profound joy. Each act of courage,

Embrace Doing

True joy isn’t a distant ideal - it lives in the act of doing. In Queer life, our spirits awaken when we dance our truths, speak our stories, and build community through every chosen action. From organizing a gathering that affirms all identities to lending a hand in protest

Friends

Friendship is the heartbeat of Queer joy - those chosen few who hold space for us fill our lives with laughter, support, and a reminder that we belong. In moments of doubt or darkness, it’s the warmth of a friend’s voice, the shared inside joke, or the knowing

Fly

Rising in our creativity can feel like leaving gravity behind - when we dare to soar with our boldest ideas, those grounded in fear may see us as strange or distant. But in Queer art and expression, those heights are where joy lives. Each time we push beyond what’s

Character

When the world offers ease, our resilience remains untested, but when we endure hardship - misunderstanding, exclusion, self-doubt - we build the strength to claim our place and the wisdom to celebrate every victory. That hard-won strength fuels the sweetest joy - the confidence to share our stories, the courage

Joy In Laughter

Every bloom reminds us that joy can unfold in countless colors and forms - much like our Queer community, where each person brings their own vibrant petals to the garden of belonging. Flowers laugh in bursts of fragrance and hue, unfurling without apology or comparison, and so too do we

Friendship

Connection blooms in the sweetness of friendship - when laughter rings out and pleasures are shared, every small moment becomes a morning for the heart. In Queer community, those dew-like delights - late-night giggles over takeout, shared playlists that spark impromptu dance parties, whispered secrets in sunlit corners - refresh

Begin

Every creative journey gains its own momentum the moment we take that first step - deciding to begin is already half the victory. Where the path can feel uncertain or unwelcome, a Joyful Queer can see embarking on that road as an act of joy and defiance. Once we commit

A New Life

Each new dawn brings a chance to reinvent ourselves - resilience means treating every day like a fresh beginning, a new life we get to shape. For Queer joy, that wisdom is our compass - when yesterday’s setbacks fade with the sunrise, we can meet today with renewed hope

The Real Thing

Joy is that exuberant heartbeat you feel right in the middle of living your truth - when every color in you hums in harmony with the moment. For Joyful Queers, that sweet rush happens in spontaneous dance circles, impromptu love letters between chosen family, or that electric instant of self-recognition

More Than Connecting

Connection in Queer joy goes beyond simple togetherness - it’s a living exchange of hearts and minds. Like writers who first inhabit their characters and then find themselves living inside each reader, our stories and experiences become shared spaces of empathy and belonging. When we open up about our

You Must Make Mistakes

Creativity thrives in the permission to err - when we stumble, we learn not just what we’re not but who we might become. In Queer life, every “mistake” is a beacon pointing toward authenticity, guiding us away from the scripts imposed on us. Those imperfect drafts, off-key songs, and

Chaos Can Lead To Wisdom

True resilience is about witnessing the world’s wounds while refusing to be consumed - like chaos and failure, pain carries lessons that can become beauty and wisdom. In the Queer community, we transform shattered pieces into acts of art - our protests, stories, and celebrations fed by insight drawn

Joy IS The Reward

Giving in Queer community is itself an act of celebration - when we offer our time, our stories, or a helping hand, the joy we feel isn’t an add-on, it’s the gift itself. Whether it’s mentoring a younger Queer person, sharing resources for chosen family, or simply

Important Issues

Connection in Queer joy often springs from engaging with the causes that shape our world - the big, important issues that demand our voices and our action. When we come together around advocacy, from fighting for trans healthcare to celebrating queer art in public spaces, our bonds deepen and our

You're An Original

Creativity is born in the bold celebration of our individual brilliance - the recognition that each Queer voice is an essential star in the sky. When we embrace our originality without shyness, we light up the universe of expression - our unique stories, styles, and visions become treasures to share.

Change Your Thinking

Resilience in Queer joy is as much a practice of the mind as it is of the heart - when the world won’t bend, we bend our perspective. Instead of ruminating on what we can’t change, we choose to see challenges as invitations to reimagine our power. In

You Must Embrace It

Joy in Queer life is a radical act of love - recognizing that joy’s rarity and beauty make it our moral compass in a world primed for sorrow. When we choose delight, we carry a promise to ourselves and each other - that our happiness matters, that our laughter

Loving The Unusual In People

Celebrating our differences is where queer connection finds its magic - when we honor each person’s unique quirks and stories, we create a circle of acceptance that feels like home. Recognizing our own unusualness gives us the courage to embrace others’ distinct colors and rhythms, weaving a vibrant tapestry

Make More Experiments

Queer creativity is the grandest laboratory of joy - every experiment we dare to try, from a new pronoun to an untested art form, is a celebration of possibility. Each “what if” becomes a playful step toward self-discovery and community connection, proving that there’s no single right way to

Where Strength Comes From

True resilience isn’t about how much we can lift but about the unbreakable spark that drives us forward. In Queer lives, where every step toward authenticity can feel like swimming upstream, our indomitable will becomes our fiercest joy. It’s the quiet refusal to let others define our limits,

In Joy, We Face The Storm

Queer joy is our defiance in the face of life’s storms — it refuses to be mastered by sorrow or circumstance. When we lean into joy, we grip the wheel of our own becoming, steering through bad weather with laughter, song, and solidarity. In those moments, we aren’t at

Communication Makes Community

Communication is the heartbeat of Queer joy - when we speak openly and listen deeply, we build understanding that blossoms into intimacy and mutual valuing. In our community, honest dialogue about desires, boundaries, and fears transforms strangers into chosen family and safe spaces into sanctuaries. Every story we share and

Art And Joy Go Together

Creativity and joy go hand in hand when we dare to create with bold openness - heads held high, ready hands embracing every chance to express ourselves without fear of judgment. In Queer art and life, stepping onto the page, the stage, or the screen with courage becomes an act

The True Balance

Resilience in Queer joy is a dance between bold agency and gentle surrender - knowing when to push for change and when to embrace the flow. Sometimes we rally, raising our voices in protest or carving out safe spaces; other times we rest, allowing our spirits to heal and hopes

The Good Fortune Of Others

Celebrating each other’s victories is a profound act of Queer joy - it reminds us that our community thrives when one of us shines, we all glow a little brighter. When we cheer on the milestones, big or small, we transmit hope and abundance, showing that success isn’t

Where To Find Happiness

Connection is where our joy finds its deepest roots - happiness often arises in the embrace of relationships that see and support us. In Queer community, bonds forged through shared experience and unconditional acceptance become lifelines, reminding us that our stories matter. Whether in whispered confidences over coffee, exuberant dance‐

It Can Be Quiet

Creativity whispers before it roars, yet even the softest spark can ignite a riot of joy - whether it’s a doodle hidden in a notebook margin or an offhand lyric sung under your breath. Those “quiet poetry” moments remind us that expression doesn’t need grand stages or spotlights

Do The Thing

Action is the spark that turns hesitation into celebration - when we move, even in small ways, we replace doubt with delight. In Queer life, taking action can look like speaking our truth, stepping into a room that scares us, or simply choosing to love ourselves today. Every brave step

Patience

Patience gives joy room to grow - it teaches us to sit with uncertainty, to honor every small step forward, and to trust the timing of our own becoming. When our community faces setbacks or slow progress, rushing only breeds frustration. Instead, leaning into patience lets us celebrate each moment

Bridge Of Laughter

Laughter doesn’t erase difference - it bridges it. In the Queer community, where connection can feel both urgent and fragile, laughter is sacred. It lowers defenses, invites breath, and reminds us we are more than what hurts. Sometimes a shared joke can soften hearts even in those who might

You Decide

The blank page, the empty stage, the untouched canvas - they all shift the moment we decide to engage. Beginning is an act of power. It says - I’m here, I have something to say, and I won’t be silent while I wait for some nebulous clue to